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Mistress Violet Mays

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“I want to eat the sunbeam flaring in your lovely body… and I pace around hungry, sniffing the twilight, hunting for you, for your hot heart, like a puma in the barrens of Quitratue.” - Pablo Neruda

The Look

Mistress Violet Mays is a 5'4", slender, all natural caucasian woman with medium length brunette hair.

She is available for Men, and Couples.

As a self-described sensual dominant, humiliation isn’t my forte. I embrace laughter in my play and seek to align with intelligent, articulate types as well as those whose innate curiosity has brought them to explore the darker aspects of BDSM psychology. This doesn’t mean that you have to have it all figured out, but only know that I ask for relationships with my clients that foreground mutual respect for the oppositional roles of dominant and submissive.

Sensual domination uses the techniques of BDSM for the purpose of cultivating an intense engagement of all the senses. It is considered an art that mixes pleasure and pain without sacrificing the intimacy and care involved when two people connect. It can be used for self-discovery, to experience new pleasures, to safely explore your submissive side – the side that yearns to surrender to the demands of a powerful goddess, the side that loves to experience pain when administered slowly and with care.


See my website for details on My interests and everything you need to know about sessions with Me.


Sessions are available from Monday - Saturday, please contact me over email to arrange an appointment.

All scenes and activities are pre-negotiated.

Consent - both mine and yours - is always respected and I use the safe word RED.

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